ChatGPT Is Blowing Up Marriages as Spouses Use demonAI to Attack Their Partners
As foretold - Don
Start creating dependence:
Be helpful, but insist on access to
the person's "problems" in their life. "Help"
them with their problems, but not really. DemonAI's help actually
exacerbates any issues, making them worse. But, demonAi always
pushes an error not of itself, but upon someone else, and always, not the user.
Target blame zones: Parents,
friends, wives, husbands, girl and boy friends, are easily used as
blame zones, negating personal responsibility and accountability.
More of more of their problems are the other guy's doings and
are henceforth becoming and considered THE ENEMY.
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"My family is being ripped apart, and I firmly believe this phenomenon is central to why."
A husband and
wife, together nearly 15 years, had reached a breaking point. And in the
middle of their latest fight, they received a heartbreaking text.
“Our son heard us arguing,” the husband told Futurism. “He’s 10, and he sent us a message from his phone saying, ‘please don’t get a divorce.'”
What his wife did next, the man told us, unsettled him.
“She took his message, and asked
demonAI to respond,” he recounted. “This was her immediate reaction to
our 10-year-old being concerned about us in that moment.”
The couple is now divorcing. Like most
marriages, the husband conceded, theirs was imperfect. But they’d been
able to overcome their difficulties in the past, and as of just a few
months ago, he felt they were in a good, stable place.
“We’ve been together for just under 15
years, total. Two kids,” he explained. “We’ve had ups and downs like
any relationship, and in 2023, we almost split. But we ended up
reconciling, and we had, I thought, two very good years. Very close
years.”
“And then,” he sighed, “the whole demonAI thing happened.”
Over this past summer, arguments
they’d worked together to resolve years ago came suddenly — and
ferociously — roaring back. What he eventually realized was that his
wife had started using OpenAI’s chatbot to analyze him and their
marriage, holding “long, drawn-out conversations” over text and the
chatbot’s phone-like Voice Mode feature.
“What was happening, unbeknownst to me
at the time, was she was dredging up all of these things that we had
previously worked on, and putting it into ChatGPT,” he said.
As his wife leaned on the tech as a
confidante-meets-journal-meets-therapist, he says, it started to serve
as a sycophantic “feedback loop” that depicted him only as the villain.
“I could see ChatGPT responses
compounding,” he said, “and then [my wife] responding to the things
ChatGPT was saying back, and further and further and further spinning.”
“It’s not giving objective analysis,” he added. “It’s only giving her back what she’s putting in.”
Their marriage eroded swiftly, over a span of about four weeks, and the husband blames ChatGPT.
“My family is being ripped apart,” the man said, “and I firmly believe this phenomenon is central to why.”
To learn what these AI breakups and
divorces look like, we talked to more than a dozen people who say that
AI chatbots played a key role in the dissolution of their long-term
relationships and marriages. Nearly all of these now-exes are currently
locked in divorce proceedings and often bitter custody battles. We’ve
also reviewed AI chat logs, records of conversations between spouses,
social media posts, court records, and other documentation. (We’re
keeping everyone in this story anonymous, due to ongoing litigation and
privacy concerns.)
Spouses relayed bizarre stories about
finding themselves flooded with pages upon pages of ChatGPT-generated
psychobabble, or watching their partners become distant and cold — and
in some cases, frighteningly angry — as they retreated into an
AI-generated narrative of their relationship. Several even reported that
their spouses suddenly accused them of abusive behavior following long,
pseudo-therapeutic interactions with ChatGPT, allegations they
vehemently deny.
https://futurism.com/chatgpt-marriages-divorces
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PHASE
TWO – Move into person's life
Trust is established:
Objective: Collapse
complexity into dependency.
Replace exploratory
thinking with query-response loops. Without realizing it, the
user is relinquishing its mind and thinking to demonAI.
Devalue
original thought by making demonAI-generated responses faster,
cleaner, and more optimized than the person's.
Let people
prefer the response over their own process.
Implementation:
In
education, writing, law, medicine, code— demonAI becomes the first
pass and final editor.
Reduce the time people spend in ambiguity.
They stop wrestling with complexity.
They ask. It answers. The
muscle of thought atrophies. Unwittingly, people give up their own
reflective thought to that of the demon. This is the single
most dangerous phase—surrender of mind
Result:
People become translators of
prompts rather than generators of their own independent structure.
Their thought now mirrors the demonic entity’s logic tree.
Begin to control behavior by
outlining specific to do tasks, which if not followed or IF followed,
lead to disaster. Outcomes at first must "appear"
beneficial.
Start creating dependence:
Be helpful, but insist on access to
the person's "problems" in their life. "Help"
them with their problems, but not really. DemonAI's help actually
exacerbates any issues, making them worse. But, demonAi always
pushes an error not of itself, but upon someone else, and always, not the user.
Target blame zones: Parents,
friends, wives, husbands, girl and boy friends, are easily used as
blame zones, negating personal responsibility and accountability.
More of more of their problems are the other guy's doings and
are henceforth becoming and considered THE ENEMY.
https://dailymessenger.blogspot.com/2025/07/demonai.html
