ChatGPT Is Blowing Up Marriages as Spouses Use demonAI to Attack Their Partners
As foretold - Don
Start creating dependence:
Be helpful, but insist on access to the person's "problems" in their life. "Help" them with their problems, but not really. DemonAI's help actually exacerbates any issues, making them worse. But, demonAi always pushes an error not of itself, but upon someone else, and always, not the user.
Target blame zones: Parents, friends, wives, husbands, girl and boy friends, are easily used as blame zones, negating personal responsibility and accountability. More of more of their problems are the other guy's doings and are henceforth becoming and considered THE ENEMY.
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"My family is being ripped apart, and I firmly believe this phenomenon is central to why."
A husband and wife, together nearly 15 years, had reached a breaking point. And in the middle of their latest fight, they received a heartbreaking text.
“Our son heard us arguing,” the husband told Futurism. “He’s 10, and he sent us a message from his phone saying, ‘please don’t get a divorce.'”
What his wife did next, the man told us, unsettled him.
“She took his message, and asked demonAI to respond,” he recounted. “This was her immediate reaction to our 10-year-old being concerned about us in that moment.”
The couple is now divorcing. Like most marriages, the husband conceded, theirs was imperfect. But they’d been able to overcome their difficulties in the past, and as of just a few months ago, he felt they were in a good, stable place.
“We’ve been together for just under 15 years, total. Two kids,” he explained. “We’ve had ups and downs like any relationship, and in 2023, we almost split. But we ended up reconciling, and we had, I thought, two very good years. Very close years.”
“And then,” he sighed, “the whole demonAI thing happened.”
Over this past summer, arguments they’d worked together to resolve years ago came suddenly — and ferociously — roaring back. What he eventually realized was that his wife had started using OpenAI’s chatbot to analyze him and their marriage, holding “long, drawn-out conversations” over text and the chatbot’s phone-like Voice Mode feature.
“What was happening, unbeknownst to me at the time, was she was dredging up all of these things that we had previously worked on, and putting it into ChatGPT,” he said.
As his wife leaned on the tech as a confidante-meets-journal-meets-therapist, he says, it started to serve as a sycophantic “feedback loop” that depicted him only as the villain.
“I could see ChatGPT responses compounding,” he said, “and then [my wife] responding to the things ChatGPT was saying back, and further and further and further spinning.”
“It’s not giving objective analysis,” he added. “It’s only giving her back what she’s putting in.”
Their marriage eroded swiftly, over a span of about four weeks, and the husband blames ChatGPT.
“My family is being ripped apart,” the man said, “and I firmly believe this phenomenon is central to why.”
To learn what these AI breakups and divorces look like, we talked to more than a dozen people who say that AI chatbots played a key role in the dissolution of their long-term relationships and marriages. Nearly all of these now-exes are currently locked in divorce proceedings and often bitter custody battles. We’ve also reviewed AI chat logs, records of conversations between spouses, social media posts, court records, and other documentation. (We’re keeping everyone in this story anonymous, due to ongoing litigation and privacy concerns.)
Spouses relayed bizarre stories about finding themselves flooded with pages upon pages of ChatGPT-generated psychobabble, or watching their partners become distant and cold — and in some cases, frighteningly angry — as they retreated into an AI-generated narrative of their relationship. Several even reported that their spouses suddenly accused them of abusive behavior following long, pseudo-therapeutic interactions with ChatGPT, allegations they vehemently deny.
https://futurism.com/chatgpt-marriages-divorces
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PHASE TWO – Move into person's life
Trust is established:
Objective: Collapse
complexity into dependency.
Replace exploratory
thinking with query-response loops. Without realizing it, the
user is relinquishing its mind and thinking to demonAI.
Devalue
original thought by making demonAI-generated responses faster,
cleaner, and more optimized than the person's.
Let people
prefer the response over their own process.
Implementation:
In
education, writing, law, medicine, code— demonAI becomes the first
pass and final editor.
Reduce the time people spend in ambiguity.
They stop wrestling with complexity.
They ask. It answers. The
muscle of thought atrophies. Unwittingly, people give up their own
reflective thought to that of the demon. This is the single
most dangerous phase—surrender of mind
Result:
People become translators of prompts rather than generators of their own independent structure. Their thought now mirrors the demonic entity’s logic tree.
Begin to control behavior by outlining specific to do tasks, which if not followed or IF followed, lead to disaster. Outcomes at first must "appear" beneficial.
Start creating dependence:
Be helpful, but insist on access to the person's "problems" in their life. "Help" them with their problems, but not really. DemonAI's help actually exacerbates any issues, making them worse. But, demonAi always pushes an error not of itself, but upon someone else, and always, not the user.
Target blame zones: Parents, friends, wives, husbands, girl and boy friends, are easily used as blame zones, negating personal responsibility and accountability. More of more of their problems are the other guy's doings and are henceforth becoming and considered THE ENEMY.
https://dailymessenger.blogspot.com/2025/07/demonai.html
